Badass Divamom Peptalks
I teach singing. It’s what I do and I’m really very good at it. I teach technique. I teach interpretation. I make sure people are singing the right notes and…
Read MoreBlack Belt Lessons
Testing for my Black Belt 2018 I was in my 40s when I began martial arts training. Girls didn’t do that when I was growing up. Girls took ballet. I…
Read MoreSelf Compassion
“The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.” ― C.G. Jung I think we all know what compassion is. We know it when we feel it. We’re going through a…
Read MoreThe Lessons of Grief
Lessons of Grief Today marks the 20 year anniversary I lost my first baby. I was, at the time, happily married and we were excited to start our family. My…
Read MoreGrowth
Today I find myself thinking about growth. There is a saying that if a tree stops growing, it is dying. I have no idea if that’s technically true, but I…
Read MoreKeep Going
I am never up for sunrise. This was captured after my grandmother’s memorial, up early to catch a flight from Florida back to LA. On this the Winter Solstice, I…
Read MoreGoals
The summit at Temescal Canyon Trail I have been training in martial arts for eight years and every year at this time, Master Turnhout exhorts us to make a Victory…
Read MoreIdentity
Who are we without the mirror? What is identity? It seems almost like a silly question. I think unless you’ve had some sort of identity crisis it doesn’t even occur…
Read MoreFear
What is fear? And what is fearlessness? As a two-time breast cancer survivor and mom to a special needs kid, I consider myself fairly fearless. I have lived with intense…
Read MoreThe Sexual Self After Breast Cancer
“Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature” –Marilyn Monroe When I was staring down the barrel of my mastectomy, I attempted to find articles on sexuality…
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